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5 steps how to find the purpose in life
Decide on the interests
Desires have to correspond to your interests. There are two recommendations which will help to choose the purpose — a touchstone and a role model.
Touchstone — it that you most of all want to receive from the purpose. Self-realization in creativity, glory, money, opportunity to help people, proximity to the nature, love … If you designate the touchstone several words, it will help to choose the purpose and to plan the shortest to it a way.
The role model — is the person who already reached results in the area chosen by you. Examples for imitation help to define the purposes, inspire and serve as the guide to action. Learn as much as possible about life your role divide, study his behavior and draw conclusions, useful to yourself.
Remember, under the purpose it is not necessary to subscribe by blood. One of the most harmful delusion ̆ ours ̆ cultures — need rigidly to stick to the purpose. Such relation holds down actions — we do not dare to make the decision as we are afraid of a vital sentence. Therefore as soon as possible refuse such parting word. If you took the first steps, however the purpose does not meet your requirements, be not afraid to leave it. Anyway you will gain experience of advance to the purpose and practical skills.
Formulate a specific goal
Your true purpose has to be specific action or an event. The abstract desire to become the writer — is dream, and here release of own book already acts as the purpose. While you sign the first copy of own book, you recognize yourself as the writer, and society will agree with this fact.
Get rid of temporary whims
Fleeting desires cannot become the life purpose. To distinguish the real dreams from temporary whims, present that you achieved the objectives. If you appear on a slope of Everest right now, your books will appear on shelves of all bookstores or to you will address "Mister president", whether you will feel on the place or desperately want to come to be houses and to continue to dream in a warm chair?
Try to draw the purpose in imagination and "to try on it on itself". If you do not want to receive actually to what aspire, anything good from this will not leave.
Only you define success of the purpose
Each person has the purpose, so, and results too the different. For someone the wealth means a lodge in the suburbs, and for others — existence of five cars. Think that has to happen that you told: "Now I am the movie star (the successful designer of racing yachts, the best engineer, a celebrity, the rich man)"? Your answer will not be similar to answers of other people. Remember, the only person whom you have to please — it you and only you define the success.
The earlier you decide on the purpose and will take the first steps on the way to its achievement, the more energy remains for another important issues. And still you will become happier, more healthy and more benevolent in relation to people around. It is time to pass to actions!
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